Scot, 22, San Luis Obispo: It is normal to find some people of the same sex attractive. Don’t freak out, you’re normal.Īnjanette, 16, Safford, Ariz.: There are really straight girls out there that find girls attractive, but they are neither gay nor bisexual. I even kissed some of my girlfriends just to see what it was like. I had feelings like this in high school and was scared too. Most people are curious, it’s just whether you act on it or not. Lisa, 22, Sacramento: Many teen girls go through this stage but it definitely doesn’t mean you are gay. Does feeling physically attracted to someone of the same sex necessarily mean you are gay or bisexual? I have never acted on these feelings toward girls and doubt I ever would, but they scare me and I can’t make them go away. I like boys and have dated, but I don’t have a steady boyfriend. She undresses in front of me and has no idea I get these feelings. This includes my stepsister with whom I sometimes share a room. Dear Straight Talk: I’m a girl and when I see other girls with attractive bodies nude, I sometimes feel a physical attraction.